๐'๐บ ๐ก๐ผ๐ ๐๐ฝ๐ผ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐ณ๐ผ๐ฟ ๐จ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด ๐๐. ๐ก๐ฒ๐ถ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ฟ ๐ฆ๐ต๐ผ๐๐น๐ฑ ๐ฌ๐ผ๐.
- Beth Estrada
- Dec 6, 2025
- 3 min read
This keeps coming up. In dinners. Leadership luncheons. Coaching sessions. All over digital mediaโbecause hey, we're all peers now, right?
Someone says "I can tell that was written by AI."
If you're the one saying it, it lands with a tinge of disdain. If you're experimenting with AI? That's instant panic and self-doubt. As if they've just caught you shoplifting.
Let's zoom out for a second.
๐๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐๐ฟ๐ฎ๐ถ๐ป๐ฒ๐ฑ ๐ผ๐ป ๐ต๐๐บ๐ฎ๐ป ๐น๐ฎ๐ป๐ด๐๐ฎ๐ด๐ฒ
So if something "sounds like AI," it still sounds like humans. That's literally what language isโpatterns we recognize because they're ours.
But here's what I believe: This isn't about quality. It's about fear.
Fear that AI will replace me. Fear that someone who embraces AI will surpass me. Fear that the rules are changing faster than I can keep up.
And lookโI get it. Change is uncomfortable. But let's be honest about what we're really critiquing here.
๐ช๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐๐ ๐๐๐ฒ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฎ ๐ฝ๐ฟ๐ผ๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ๐บ (๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ ๐๐ต๐ฒ๐ป ๐ถ๐'๐ ๐ป๐ผ๐)
Should AI replace your thinking? Absolutely not.
If you're a college student and the assignment exists to demonstrate what you've learned, then letting AI write the whole thing defeats the purpose. You're there to develop judgment, curiosity, critical thinkingโthose are human jobs.
But if you're using AI to explore ideas, collect research, fact-check your logic, structure your argument, and refine your writing? That's not cheating. That's working smarter.
And I want to see people who know how to do that. I want to applaud it. Because learning to use new tools effectively ๐ช๐ด the skill.
๐ง๐ต๐ฒ ๐ฑ๐ผ๐๐ฏ๐น๐ฒ ๐๐๐ฎ๐ป๐ฑ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฑ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฟ๐ถ๐ฑ๐ถ๐ฐ๐๐น๐ผ๐๐
We don't shame people for using calculators. We don't tell them to turn off spellcheck and manually hunt down every typo. Nobody says, "Oh, I can tell you used Excel for those chartsโyou didn't draw them by hand."
Tools make our work better, faster, more polished. That's the entire point of progress.
So why are we suddenly policing which tools are "allowed"?
๐ช๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐๐ต๐ถ๐ ๐ถ๐ ๐ฟ๐ฒ๐ฎ๐น๐น๐ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐
When someone says "I can tell AI helped you," they think it's a critique.
It's not.
It's a confession.
A confession that someone else has learned a skill they're still afraid to touch. That the landscape is shifting and they're not sure where they fit anymore.
And I get that fear. But projecting it onto others through judgment? That doesn't protect your relevance. It just announces your resistance.
๐๐ฒ๐ฟ๐ฒ'๐ ๐๐ต๐ฎ๐ ๐ ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฟ๐ฒ ๐ฎ๐ฏ๐ผ๐๐
Did you do the thinking? Did you explore the problem? Did you verify the facts? Did you shape the direction?
If the answer is yes, then I don't care how you packaged it.
Use AI. Use spellcheck. Use grammar tools. Use whatever helps you produce work that's clear, accurate, and effective.
Because here's the truth: the people who will lose their jobs to AI aren't the ones using it effectively.
It's the ones who refuse to learn.
๐ฆ๐ผ ๐ป๐ผ, ๐'๐บ ๐ป๐ผ๐ ๐ฎ๐ฝ๐ผ๐น๐ผ๐ด๐ถ๐๐ถ๐ป๐ด
I use AI to think faster, write clearer, and work smarter.
And if you can "tell"? Good.
It means I'm not afraid of new tools. It means I'm adapting. It means I'm focused on the work, not the gatekeeping.
The people who learn to use new tools aren't the ones who get replaced by them. They're the ones who lead the change.
So don't hate the calculator for doing math.
Pick it up and learn to count.
๐.๐. ๐๐ง ๐ฉ๐ข๐ท๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ญ๐ฆ๐ด๐ด ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ช๐ด๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ฅ, ๐๐-๐ข๐ด๐ด๐ช๐ด๐ต๐ฆ๐ฅ ๐ธ๐ณ๐ช๐ต๐ช๐ฏ๐จ ๐ช๐ด ๐ช๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ฐ๐ณ๐ต๐ข๐ฏ๐ต ๐ต๐ฐ ๐บ๐ฐ๐ถ, ๐ค๐ฉ๐ฆ๐ค๐ฌ ๐ฐ๐ถ๐ต ๐ฎ๐บ ๐ฑ๐ณ๐ฐ๐ฎ๐ฑ๐ต ๐ถ๐ฏ๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ ๐๐ ๐๐ฐ๐ฐ๐ญ๐ด ๐ฐ๐ฏ ๐๐ฆ๐บ๐๐ด๐ฑ๐ช๐ณ๐ช๐ฏ๐จ๐๐ฆ๐ข๐ฅ๐ฆ๐ณ๐ด.๐ค๐ฐ๐ฎ


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