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๐—œ'๐—บ ๐—ก๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—”๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ณ๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐—จ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—”๐—œ. ๐—ก๐—ฒ๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฆ๐—ต๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐—ฌ๐—ผ๐˜‚.

  • Writer: Beth Estrada
    Beth Estrada
  • Dec 6, 2025
  • 3 min read

This keeps coming up. In dinners. Leadership luncheons. Coaching sessions. All over digital mediaโ€”because hey, we're all peers now, right?


Someone says "I can tell that was written by AI."

If you're the one saying it, it lands with a tinge of disdain. If you're experimenting with AI? That's instant panic and self-doubt. As if they've just caught you shoplifting.


Let's zoom out for a second.


๐—”๐—œ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ฟ๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ฒ๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐—ป ๐—ต๐˜‚๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜‚๐—ฎ๐—ด๐—ฒ

So if something "sounds like AI," it still sounds like humans. That's literally what language isโ€”patterns we recognize because they're ours.


But here's what I believe: This isn't about quality. It's about fear.


Fear that AI will replace me. Fear that someone who embraces AI will surpass me. Fear that the rules are changing faster than I can keep up.


And lookโ€”I get it. Change is uncomfortable. But let's be honest about what we're really critiquing here.


๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—”๐—œ ๐˜‚๐˜€๐—ฒ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฝ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ๐—บ (๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜'๐˜€ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜)

Should AI replace your thinking? Absolutely not.

If you're a college student and the assignment exists to demonstrate what you've learned, then letting AI write the whole thing defeats the purpose. You're there to develop judgment, curiosity, critical thinkingโ€”those are human jobs.


But if you're using AI to explore ideas, collect research, fact-check your logic, structure your argument, and refine your writing? That's not cheating. That's working smarter.


And I want to see people who know how to do that. I want to applaud it. Because learning to use new tools effectively ๐˜ช๐˜ด the skill.


๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฏ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฑ๐—ถ๐—ฐ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜€

We don't shame people for using calculators. We don't tell them to turn off spellcheck and manually hunt down every typo. Nobody says, "Oh, I can tell you used Excel for those chartsโ€”you didn't draw them by hand."


Tools make our work better, faster, more polished. That's the entire point of progress.


So why are we suddenly policing which tools are "allowed"?


๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—น๐—น๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜

When someone says "I can tell AI helped you," they think it's a critique.


It's not.

It's a confession.


A confession that someone else has learned a skill they're still afraid to touch. That the landscape is shifting and they're not sure where they fit anymore.


And I get that fear. But projecting it onto others through judgment? That doesn't protect your relevance. It just announces your resistance.


๐—›๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ'๐˜€ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜

Did you do the thinking? Did you explore the problem? Did you verify the facts? Did you shape the direction?


If the answer is yes, then I don't care how you packaged it.


Use AI. Use spellcheck. Use grammar tools. Use whatever helps you produce work that's clear, accurate, and effective.


Because here's the truth: the people who will lose their jobs to AI aren't the ones using it effectively.

It's the ones who refuse to learn.


๐—ฆ๐—ผ ๐—ป๐—ผ, ๐—œ'๐—บ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐—ผ๐—น๐—ผ๐—ด๐—ถ๐˜‡๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด

I use AI to think faster, write clearer, and work smarter.


And if you can "tell"? Good.


It means I'm not afraid of new tools. It means I'm adapting. It means I'm focused on the work, not the gatekeeping.


The people who learn to use new tools aren't the ones who get replaced by them. They're the ones who lead the change.


So don't hate the calculator for doing math.

Pick it up and learn to count.


๐˜—.๐˜š. ๐˜๐˜ง ๐˜ฉ๐˜ข๐˜ท๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ญ๐˜ฆ๐˜ด๐˜ด ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ, ๐˜ˆ๐˜-๐˜ข๐˜ด๐˜ด๐˜ช๐˜ด๐˜ต๐˜ฆ๐˜ฅ ๐˜ธ๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ต๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ ๐˜ช๐˜ด ๐˜ช๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ฐ๐˜ณ๐˜ต๐˜ข๐˜ฏ๐˜ต ๐˜ต๐˜ฐ ๐˜บ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ, ๐˜ค๐˜ฉ๐˜ฆ๐˜ค๐˜ฌ ๐˜ฐ๐˜ถ๐˜ต ๐˜ฎ๐˜บ ๐˜ฑ๐˜ณ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ๐˜ฑ๐˜ต ๐˜ถ๐˜ฏ๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ ๐˜ˆ๐˜ ๐˜›๐˜ฐ๐˜ฐ๐˜ญ๐˜ด ๐˜ฐ๐˜ฏ ๐˜๐˜ฆ๐˜บ๐˜ˆ๐˜ด๐˜ฑ๐˜ช๐˜ณ๐˜ช๐˜ฏ๐˜จ๐˜“๐˜ฆ๐˜ข๐˜ฅ๐˜ฆ๐˜ณ๐˜ด.๐˜ค๐˜ฐ๐˜ฎ


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